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How do we create belonging in our communities?

E4A Champions connect about the impact of loneliness and polarization

4 December 2024

We walk alongside Enough for All Champions to reduce poverty in Calgary. Over the past year we have come together to advocate for affordable housing, to discuss emerging developments with different levels of government, and to stretch our collective imagination about building enough for all futures – the trust and relationships we foster make an impact on the policies and practices that affect those living in poverty.

Many voiced concerns about polarization and the impacts of loneliness in our community, so this year’s annual gathering was a space to reflect on collective action, explore the challenges of polarization and loneliness, and spark conversations about belonging. Guided by the wisdom of Elder Wanda First Rider, who opened the gathering with a smudge and blessing, we grounded ourselves in a spirit of unity.

We are grateful to our panel of leaders, Shone Thistle, Dwight Good Eagle Farahat, and Dr. Richard Lewanczuk, who shared their insights on how loneliness, polarization, and connection shape our communities. They reminded us that while loneliness and division pose significant challenges, the solution lies in cultivating trust and fostering belonging.

Richard told us to “get to know your neighbours, they are your first responders.” He also highlighted how polarization is a reaction to not feeling like you belong, and how when we categorize people we create the conditions to feel excluded.

“Seeing from someone else’s point of view, that’s such a gift,” said Shone. “We all have such unique diverse lived experience, and when we can take a step outside of our perspective and appreciate that someone else has a perspective different from our own, it’s an opportunity to create connection and belonging.” 

Dwight drove the point that belonging takes bravery, that we can’t create light by studying the dark, and that it’s a leadership skill to be the first to say hello when you walk into a room.

The current state of our world can feel heavy, and loneliness and disconnection are growing in different ways, but belonging is present and possible. The antidote, the healing effect of community and connection is real.

The road to an Enough for All future requires imagination, intentional relationships, and collective action—and with so many leaders, community members, and changemakers, we know this future is within reach.

Deep gratitude for the commitment of so many individuals and organizations, to their dedication to reducing poverty. We will continue to build bridges, foster belonging, and inspire change together.

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